I think a lot of people have dreams and they don’t pursue them because they’re afraid of what people are going to say or what people are going to think.
Kate Flemister
From nerves to relief, their border crossing marked the beginning of an incredible journey. But little did we know, there was an unexpected twist waiting for us. What could it be? Keep reading to find out.
In this episode, you will be able to:
- Discover the highs and lows of living the nomadic RV lifestyle, and how it can impact your life.
- Learn to embrace adaptability and resilience, both during travel and in everyday life.
- Gain insights into building an entrepreneurial venture while living and traveling on the road.
- Uncover hidden blessings and valuable life lessons, even in the face of adversity.
- Tap into your inner voice and embrace the freedom that comes with this unique and unconventional way of living.
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Pandemic and Loss, Leaving Canada
The COVID-19 pandemic has brought about significant changes in people’s lives, leading to grief, loss, and unexpected challenges. Navigating through such an unprecedented time can be difficult, as it often requires altering lifestyles and routines. Despite all the struggles, it can also offer learning experiences and opportunities for self-reflection and growth. During the podcast episode, Kate recounts the difficulties her family faced living in Canada during the pandemic, especially when her father passed away at the start of the pandemic from pneumonia. The heartache and the constraints of the pandemic served as a catalyst for her family’s decision to leave Canada and embark on their RV adventure in the United States. In this way, Kate’s family learned to adapt to change and make the most of the situation, finding unexpected blessings and opportunities for growth amidst the challenges.
Follow Your Intuition
Listening to one’s intuition and following through on life pursuits that feel compelling could lead to surprising discoveries and transformative life experiences. Embarking on an unconventional path might be challenging, but it can often bring about personal growth and fulfilling opportunities. In the episode, Kate encourages listeners to follow their pull towards alternative lifestyles such as RV living. She shares her family’s journey, emphasizing how their decision to venture into the nomadic lifestyle has brought them closer together and provided them with a renewed sense of purpose. By following their passion, Kate’s family has discovered unexpected blessings and a supportive community, ultimately affirming the value of trusting one’s intuition and embracing unconventional life choices.
Non-Committal Future
One of the key takeaways from the podcast is the notion that it is difficult to plan too far ahead when dealing with uncertain circumstances. Instead, it is essential to remain flexible and adaptable in the face of change, embracing the unfolding of unexpected events. This mindset allows for growth, resilience, and a deeper appreciation of life’s journey, with all its twists and turns. Kate acknowledges that their future is uncertain, particularly with regards to their residency and citizenship struggles. Despite these uncertainties, she holds onto the hope that her husband Mike’s citizenship will come through soon, and they can continue working on their long-term plans. In the meantime, Kate focuses on developing content and embracing the present moment. Her ability to remain adaptable amidst uncertainty serves as an inspiration and a reminder for all RV travelers to cherish their own journeys.
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Timestamped Summary of this Episode:
00:00:00 – Introduction,
Kate introduces herself and her podcast before sharing her own story and her family’s background. She expresses gratitude for her listeners and explains that this episode will be different as it will focus on her family’s journey.
00:02:05 – Where We’ve Been,
Kate discusses where her family has traveled since leaving Canada, including their nerve-wracking border crossing experience, their stay in Missouri, and their current location in Florida.
00:08:56 – Crossing the Border,
Kate recounts the anxiety she felt while crossing the border from Canada into the US during the pandemic. She shares details of the process and expresses relief once they had successfully crossed.
00:13:08 – Getting to Missouri,
Kate describes the challenges her family faced while traveling to Missouri, including traffic, construction, and making accommodations for potty breaks. She recalls their first night in a Walmart parking lot.
00:16:01 – Arriving at the Campground,
Kate talks about the challenges of backing up their trailer for the first time in a public campground. She also discusses the tensions that arose at the campground due to new ownership.
00:16:49 – First RV Experience,
The speaker talks about her first RV experience, sharing how it took her some time to park and set up due to the RV’s length and the wrong directions given by the campground staff. Despite the challenges, the speaker was happy with the experience and enjoyed camping in a new environment.
00:21:20 – Meeting New People,
The speaker talks about the wonderful people they met during their travels, including full-timers, other families, and RV enthusiasts. She shares how meeting these people reaffirmed her family’s decision to travel and live in an RV, and how grateful they were for the connections made.
00:25:20 – California Experience,
The speaker shares their experience traveling through California, visiting various places and meeting new people. She talks about how California was more open than their home province, and how they enjoyed exploring the state’s various locations, including national parks.
00:29:47 – Zion National Park,
The speaker talks about their visit to Zion National Park, sharing how stunning and breathtaking the views were. She mentions how they had to stick to the paths along the roadside due to the mask requirements on the buses, but they still managed to see the park’s beautiful features.
00:31:21 – Lone Rock State Park,
The speaker talks about their experience boondocking at Lone Rock State Park in Arizona, sharing how they parked their RV for optimal sun exposure on their solar panels. She also shares how they experienced a windstorm and saw snow-c
00:34:07 – Traveling Across the US,
Kate shares her family’s journey across the US, stopping at various national parks and landmarks. They faced challenges, such as driving through mountains, but overall, it was a stunning adventure.
00:44:10 – Settling in Orlando Area,
The family has been in the Orlando area for over a year, waiting for their citizenship process to go through. They have enjoyed being in one place, making friends, and planning for their future.
00:47:11 – Living in Small Spaces,
Kate reflects on living in under 300 sqft with her family for two years. While it hasn’t always been easy, they have made it work and are excited for the possibilities of their future, such as hosting friends and starting a business.
00:49:36 – Pandemic and Loss,
Kate discusses her experience during the pandemic, including the loss of her father who lived in a long-term care facility. She reflects on the challenges of visiting him during the pandemic and questions the effectiveness of certain protocols.
00:50:45 – Grief and Moving Forward,
Kate talks about the process of grieving her father’s passing and how it has influenced her family’s future plans. They are excited for new opportunities and possibilities, but will always cherish memories of their past adventures.
00:51:38 – Coping with Loss During the Pandemic,
The guest shares her experience of losing her father during the pandemic when she and her family were not allowed to be with him in his final moments. She talks about the challenges of coping with grief and the impact of the pandemic on families who were not allowed to be with their loved ones in their final moments.
00:52:37 – Restrictions on Gatherings,
The guest shares her frustration with restrictions on gatherings during the pandemic, particularly at her father’s funeral where they were only allowed ten people at the graveside. She questions why they couldn’t socially distance and allow more people to attend, especially since they were outside.
00:54:01 – Moving to an RV,
The guest talks about how they decided to sell their house and move into an RV after listening to a podcast about RV living and realizing it could be a way to travel and go to school during the pandemic. She discusses the challenges of this lifestyle and how it has changed their perspective on entrepreneurship and education.
01:00:18 – Journey to California,
The guest shares her wow moment of reaching the California coast during their travels across the country in their RV. She talks about the transformative power of experiencing new places and how it has strengthened her family’s relationships.
01:05:41 – Shifting Perspectives,
The guest talks about how their journey has changed their perspectives on education and entrepreneurship. She shares how they have shifted from traditional schooling to unschooling and
01:09:36 – Highest High and Lowest Low,
Kate shares that their lowest low has been the ongoing struggle with lawyers and feeling lonely at times due to financial constraints. However, the highest high has been the blessings they have received from complete strangers who have helped them through various challenges.
01:15:20 – Follow Your Pull,
Kate advises listeners to follow their intuition and pursue whatever they feel called to do in life. She stresses that ignoring your inner voice can drastically alter your life’s course.
01:16:34 – Season Two Preview,
Kate announces that season two will focus on various business and work options for those interested in a more nomadic lifestyle. The aim is to help people learn how to support themselves while living a non-traditional lifestyle.
01:18:23 – Future Plans,
Kate shares that they hope to find a place to call home and build their own mini-farm to support Micah’s basketball training program. They also plan to continue traveling once Mike’s citizenship and their residency are secured.
01:19:28 – Non-Committal Future,
Kate explains that they are committed to being non-committal and following wherever God leads them. They are open to pivoting and adjusting their plans based on how life unfolds.
